We have three natures: we are naturally inclined to love, because a human is an emotional – like dog in a way – creature; we are naturally inclined to actually judge, which is actually a form of hate – it’s a permission for malicious criticism… which comes from jealousy of Tranquility, when we are feeling anxious 😟 and often although, like Obama, we may look good on the outside, but that’s really what we call perfectionism.. which is fear of criticism, which can be very debilitating and painful anxiety – and ultimately we are naturally inclined towards compassion, which is where our Focus must be