1. As a doctor who wrote a book about this writes, that the way God made us, is that intimacy creates bonding – so if you ever want to get out of the situation – the fact is you are emotionally connected, perhaps forever.

2. The second reason is actually; intimacy without marriage is a form of rape, because no woman is actually intimate, without desiring marriage.

3. From the woman’s perspective, it’s the height of insanity, because the guy who has hormones is using you, and people who use others, do not respect you, and if they don’t respect you, they have no commitment.

4. Because God says so, and God will be the source of your blessings.

5. A relationship must first and foremost be built on shared values – in fact in Judaism there are 2 weeks on, 2 weeks off – when we don’t even touch – which allows for a time of ecstasy and a time of shared values.

6. Sort of similar to the first, but anytime you are addicted to anything, you cannot be objective about it.

7. THE bottom line is that those people that can control themselves in one area, can control themselves in all areas; and those that cannot, cannot.

8 From a female perspective, it is finally shameful to be subjugated to somebody using and not remaining.

9 Ultimately, a union should be with two people who are going to have children, and be role models, and what a terrible example of setting for the children.

10. The most important reason is, because if you respect the other person, number one, you seek their welfare.