0 responses to “At all times all of us are in one of three states – the first is when there is security – so in a democratic secure country, where no one shames or harms you – in such a state, we are TOO secure – TOO calm; as we see how many millions, hundreds of millions at-least! of us, are literally killing ourselves. (through drugs, pornography, escapism of all kinds – destroying the only thing we truly possess – some time.) The other is the flipside, namely you live in an insecure, either fearful of shame, or some kind of bodily harm environment – in this scenario you are paranoid – you see, the mind projects our emotions, so when we are secure, our mind projects that which we desire (as a study shows, men daydream about vacation, women about marriage) but when we are insecure, unfortunately the mind begins to project every possible danger scenario (no better described then when G0d’s litany of curses (for disobedience) are mentioned, He writes that “the rustling of a leaf will frighten you”) for once the mind goes into PTSD we begin to sense danger – this is what Freud calls preparation anxiety – however it is a horrid state – suffice it to say, even tough soldiers routinely commit suicide; for no-one wishes to live with the reality of their heart bouncing like a bowling ball; creating constant anxiety, fear; (generally, while these two states obviously affect men or women, as women have larger or more integrated (right, left, center) brains, they have (as studies show) double the rate of anxiety, hence depression, suicide etc.) The third state is where we need to end up, not delusional (fantasy based on security + desire) nor anxiety (based on insecurity + nightmares) We get to the golden-equilibrium, by understanding that we are actually under God’s protective hand – however this does not mean that we can go into security / fantasy mode, because God is not here to give us a free-ride, rather his ride takes us to destinations that alter our perception, allowing us to continuously grow.”