0 responses to “We can live in one of three realities: the first is based on security, hence our instinctual urges coupled with both our Divine soul and mind tussle – such a reality ends up that we (as Maslow’s hierarchy predicts) begin to search for meaning (as after we fulfill our instinctual urges, we sense they are meaningless) then there is another reality, in which perhaps the majority of the world lives in, for not only does one need physical security to have security, but one likewise needs emotional (free from shame) People living in societies in which parents, elders etc. shame – this creates a phobia – such people basically live traumatized lives (they pretend to be guilt-free – even to themselves, hence narcissistic-personality-disorder, as well as perfectionism – this is all to prevent future narcissistic-wounding (shame to their psyche – identity – self image) However as it is not fun to be pretending (like carrying a heavy mask all the time – these people begin to also become jealous (for by nature all people are jealous of one another hence they begin to see reasons to shame others – particularly those who haven’t been shamed – this explains the bizarre phenomena of bullying, antisemitism, and terrorism- so the worst people pick on the best) ultimately we will all arrive at the truth”