Either there is or isn’t God

If there is a God than everything that happens is simply his plan

If there isn’t a God, than you have no right to complain (hardly do animals complain that lions attack – it’s just the way things are)

If there is a God and everything is his plan we must conclude his plan is people should grow up  and instead of caring what some person who cares what some person says (or thinks) ad-infinitum, you will, like Abraham and all our great saints, simply follow