1. Every person shall (ideal as well as average scenario) go through firstly, a naïve state.

The naive state:

“Everyone loves me, as I love everyone.”

By nature, we believe that others feel about us, as we feel about them.

2. “Well it seems, some people are random, violent, mercurial, haters!”

This is a critical stage – for it takes us out of the naïve state.

Though the naïve state is filled with love – the love is basically like a puppy-love – A lion was once asked by a dog – “It’s not fair, you they call the king of the jungle, while I am so friendly and they call me a dog!?” – “What don’t you understand” said the lion to the dog, “You go to whoever feeds you!”

So coupled with naive love, and its genuine and positive traits, is the desire to fulfill our desires! – It lacks boundaries, rationality, and as they say “The way to hell is paved with good intentions!” – Look only at the “philosophies” of liberalism; far from freeing women, they have turned women into modern free whores, lacking any societal protection, dignity etc. (This doesn’t mean that the past was appropriate; only that breaking down boundaries, like opening your house to all, soon enough, you will have all the takers, abusers (at best) taking over! – The same is true of every single liberal idea – for it is easy to say “free for all!” – but impossible to live unprotected!)

However, a very negative consequence of becoming wise, is becoming cynical! – It is also just as easy to close up! – “Everyone is bad!” – This is based, both on fear (and hence to protect oneself, one creates a paradigm in which one has the moral right to ignore others) as well as hate – Remember no-one ever was born with hate (rather a desire for love; so they were converted into hate! except for jealousy, which manifests hate without an outside abuse) In other words, if I become cynical, then, not only do I close myself off (from fear, which can only be conquered through faith – even Freud, a nonbeliever and as all psychological studies show (said) Believers have more tranquility.) So I then become jealous of love (which is why, we find, the bizarre abnormality of people hating Jews, Americans, bullying – it is all, the person who has become cynical, and broken, in a state of fear/misery, jealous of those who are happy, hence trying to make them miserable – but as the mind doesn’t accept that “I am evil,” it creates delusions of the other’s, to justify the maliciousness.)

3. Last and this is the goal – wisdom – understanding – knowledge – compassion!

In this paradigm, a person acknowledges the weakness of man.

As opposed from seeing through the childish eyes of love and fear, he understands, all people are inherently like a bowl of water – stick in a bit of chicken, you can make chicken soup! a bit of poison, you have the devil’s broth.