0 responses to “well it’s just so obvious – studies – I love these kind of studies (as I despise the other) you see, there are studies that aggregate all the studies, while there are studies that ask 20 people – these super-studies can look at 30 major studies and hence are the clearest picture – so when it comes to psychology – the healing of broken hearts – many methods have been developed – sorry to say, they are all garbage! – yes, this is what the super-study shows – not a single method (apart from Carl Rogers whose method is the result, of these studies) works – so what does? if the therapist has genuine love – now the reason I write this, is because it is the story of my bunny rabbits – yes, you heard right – please don’t pretend – my bunny rabbits – you see, the first bunny rabbit was so loving – open-hearted like a child, that he feared nothing – to him the world was a garden of eden, where his bunny heart would be happy – and so he stayed not in his confined backyard – and wandered into the big world where today he is either bunny chow or living the life of bunny bliss – I don’t know – but the next bunny – now he was paranoid – I don’t know what kind of life he had prior to coming to my home – suffice it to say, people made him run – if the neighboring cat didn’t eat him – well, he would have remained alive in his corner forever – but the third bunny – this is like those studies I despise – you see, I figured out bunnys – they are just like people – too naive, they can’t sit still (like boys, teenage boys in particular) too fearful, they remain reticent; but the third bunny, he was somewhere in-between”