0 responses to “As usual Kabbalah describes it not only best but accurately – there are basically three paradigms a person exists in – the first is love – now for love to exist, which is a natural instinct, like a dog has, as it is a social creature – there needs to be a lack of its opposing emotion, fear – which is why children coming from secure households are loving – the second emotion is unfortunately fear/anxiety, this is a terrible place to live in, for a person continually feels fearful and robs them of the ability to feel pleasure (this also compounds with the reality, that by nature we are jealous of the good another has (which we feel we should also have) hence the person, in the state of anxiety will become malicious – their mind will begin to see issues “wrong,” the non-fearful people “do;” and then use that as an excuse to cause them to feel fear (hence terrorism, bullying, antisemitism etc. etc.)) but the ultimate – ironically, is not love born from security, for as mentioned, quite easily the security can turn into insecurity – rather the ultimate in life, is humility! for in the state of feeling like you are a nothing! you allow the truth – God, convictions, to guide you!”