0 responses to “You can stand on your head, you can shout your lungs out, in fact, toddlers do just that, but three facts are the very fabric of reality and they are not subject to change: the first is time, the second is space (one thing – at least a created physical being – cannot occupy two spaces beyond the parameters of its own limited space, simultaneously) and the third is individuality – every person is unique, and the corollary of this is, that if you want to get through to someone, you must impress not depress, encourage not discourage, shine love, never fear; show them what’s good, not what’s bad; highlight, not negate; demonstrate, not remonstrate; and perhaps I could and maybe should give ad-infinitum analogies, but it all boils down to positivity versus negativity, for in the former you allow the individuality to blossom, in the latter, you temporarily destroy it.”