If we travel back in time, we see this as the subconscious problem of their ancestor Yishmoel, who instead of feeling humbled by his station of being Avrahom’s child, felt entitled.

But everything in life is shown to us for a reason, for this problem affects all of us!

The solution is quite simple – if we engage in gratitude, we do not allow that which is a gift, to become a tool of the satan, in making us arrogant, hence irascible.