Here’s the problem – we must do good – but when we succeed, we become bloated – imagine if whenever you ate, you got fat – problem…

Here’s the solution – instead of doing good based on your mind, hence getting arrogant when God makes you successful, only do what God tells you to do!

The easiest mechanism is to appoint a mashpia (Chassidic spiritual mentor, Rabbi and Rebbetzin for men and women respectively)