The answer is simple, when and if God forbid a person was shamed – aka bullying – for no reason; hence the pain of shame without being able to isolate a cause under one’s control, leads to a general anxiety around people.

But what if people figured out, that it’s a mistake, really every time you were denigrated, you were being complimented in another language! suddenly the source of the fear disappears, replaced with the atypical love people have for people!

Truthfully, any needless shame is a compliment in another language! because ultimately the reason there are bullies (including parents who bully etc.) is because there is jealousy, so what greater compliment than, that someone is jealous of you!! Sent via my BlackBerry from Vodacom – let your email find you!