I know, why is a Rabbi writing about porn?

Well is it not the white elephant in the closet – the thing that is being ignored but has an immense influence?!

Why men like porn is unfortunately exceptionally simple once you understand why!

Remember the subconscious brain denies negativity so if G-d forbid a. is jealous of b., b. is seen as an evil person by a.

In other words, the subconscious mind allows a person through a process called subconscious rationalizations to do what a person would never do if their heart didn’t want to do it.

So here is how it goes: if you have something you want to do, say drugs that give you pleasure, although you yourself would normally tell others the dangers of drugs, now you will ignore the dangers and only see the positive in it, namely the high.

For example when a boy is before testosterone influence he finds girls basically as having cuties, akin to a disease.

Suddenly when the testosterone hormones in puberty kick in he is like a mouse to cheese and usually entrapped by his desire and lacks control over his raging needs.

G-d has placed a testosterone chemical influence in men that they enjoy debasing women.