you see what people living in free – which means emotionally respectful of another’s will, not cookie shaping people into a cultural norms, such as in Japan, Germany etc. – fail to perceive, is that people in the said, which is the majority of societies, lack love – for a person by nature is free, which means wishes to express their individual opinion, but when they must repress that, it shuts off their love and they basically simply biologically function; but the flip side is, that lack of love doesn’t only create a biological pleasure/pain biological animal, it also allows the ego’s irrational narcissistic desire for recognition and anger to manifest, as in any event they don’t care about another’s opinion (only what harm they can receive)