Yep it only is about how!

All boils down to the mechanism to be good and kind, which succinctly is boiled down to the Baal Shem Tov’s statement “Have no fear from anyone or anything but God and love everyone with all your heart and soul” – through identifying with them, which as a fellow Jew, you share the same soul in different bodies, like sunlight is from, and here, is the same sun in many homes, and with everyone else, through realizing, all souls in earth are here to fulfill God’s utopian dream through us all rising above our selfishness and become ever more giving / selfless!