woe to the person who misunderstands the dynamics of reality – this is totally not PC which is o.k. (as what is PC is a colossal disaster) All relationships have (as has been discovered in psychology) one of three dynamics: it is either a giver / receiver (this is the male / female, parent / child, boss / employee, authority / subject, dynamic) or it is a friend – equal dynamic – Now the notion that we will eradicate the structure of relationships, is both stupid and counterproductive – for a relationship necessitates difference (you don’t have a relationship with yourself) and ironically the greater the difference, for example, in the parent / child and husband / wife dynamic, the more the relationship! – for a relationship necessitates a dynamic – and the dynamic is the one who needs (protection etc.) and the one who desires to give