with the help of God, I just understood one of the most powerful ways to tell whose message is good or evil – you see some are leading us to love and unity while others to hate / division, which really leads to war and murder, and even worse – so the way you can tell me whose message is true versus whose message is self aggrandization, illusion of narcissism, which is "I am better than you, and everybody must obey me" is which message leads to a greater respect