With the grace of Hashem I have come to understand the infinite truth (in a specific, very very very important, but almost impossible to comprehend – in fact there is an entire field of psychology devoted just to this) the notion of jealousy – you see, behind jealousy lies a simple equation – “if I am equal to you, why should you have it better?” – this is why black people are generally (if they are humble) not jealous of whites (I lived in Africa for many years – the only “anti-white” come from those who became arrogant, whether through wealth or power – the infinite majority are nice) Jews don’t hate Arabs (as through the history we have been humbled, though Arabs hate Jews – but interestingly, as they are seeing their own shame – hence they are stopping to hate) the list is endless (as it most important, I’ll give a few more examples – radicals, white or black, hate, well everyone (favorite targets are perhaps another color, the government – fundamentally their issue – they are miserable. – When they asked Freud for the explanation of anti-semitism, he said “miserable bastards” – People who are happy, don’t hate – so if we want the world to be good, we must make it happy!!!!! – But don’t think money buys happiness, as studies shows, it doesn’t (unless you give it away, which does.) The average person, to be happy must have a. security (you can’t be happy when fear pulsates through you – security is not so easy – particularly emotional security (not to have the fear of shame) the second is, you must have a. been humbled (a spoiled child for example can never have reality meet their expectations – in fact, this is why children generally are happy, as they have less expectations) b. however, you must also recover from your shame (so now you are humble, but not feeling shame.) c. you must have some sort of happiness – either from feeling grateful; from doing something meaningful; from looking forward to something, and ideally all three