What’s up with male female relationships

 

 

O.k this is not politically correct but it’s political correctness that has destroyed the male female relationship

 

So let’s get real

 

For only in reality can you, well live in reality

 

According to Chassidus (without going into psychologically how this occurs) the male female dynamic is like the sun and the moon.

 

The sun is big and most importantly full of energy, the moon by contrast is small, dark and desolate.

 

Now all of us a. desire to be big (though it’s a relative term, nonetheless, based on our relative reality, so men would like to be the CEO or President etc., women whatever big would mean to them, perhaps, famous movie star, singer etc.) but b. perhaps even more vital to our very sense of wellbeing, is the need to feel alive.

 

This causes an innate attraction between women to men.

 

The trouble is this, the reason there is an innate attraction from men to women is really sexual.

 

So as we see empirically, while women or girls are seeking men for relationships as well as positive energy, men are seeking women not to be crude, but facts are facts, for sex.

 

Unless we men can understand – and I think this is really perhaps the crux of the matter, for men are not bad, they simply do not know – so unless we men can truly understand that a relationship with a woman is not a one night stand, rather the ability to warm a person’s heart, to provide identity to someone (amazingly) looking to attach to ours – then and only then will we fulfill our role on the cosmic stage.