What’s most important to God is that each of us integrate him, so we can continually become better people – what’s most important to a father, is that his wife and children should be happy and his children should be moral – what’s most important to a wife, say without children, is that her husband should take away her fears, by demonstrating his love to her – what’s most important to a mother is that her children should first and foremost be physically OK Fed, A roof over their head; secondly, that they should be moral; thirdly, that their father should be a good role-model, and fourthly, that they should be happy.