What none of us realize – except those who have delved into the deepest secret of Kabbalah and Jewish mysticism – is the world is obviously exactly the way it is meant to be! – how come? – the answer is as Chassidus continually reminds us, the goal of life is not nirvana, it is not bliss, rather it is, that in the beginning, the Holy One Blessed Be He, decided to marry you! – for a marriage to take place three things must occur – the first is you must exist independent of the other – the second is, you must independently desire to find your match (in this case truth); thirdly, truth must come to you in a way that a. does not abrogate your independence, b. like a marriage, continuously be there with and for you, c. ultimately consolidating in the three separate but simultaneous realities of: a. you’re enhanced existence b. the living with your partner and c. space and place, moments and coalescing of two becoming one