What is critical to comprehend is that we have multiple forms of relationships – the relationship between a husband and a wife and a wife and a husband, is different to the relationship between a parent and a child and the child and a parent, which is different to the relationship between man and God and God and man (though as Kabbalah teaches, God reflects us – as one of the key to a humble soul, is reflection) which is different to the relationship between a leader and followers, and the followers to the leader; which is different to the relationship between friends – not to mention, how we relate to the various things, be it money, food etc.