What if you could learn the 10 motivations which encapsulated every single human motivation, the first is perpetuation, the second is jealousy, jealousy is the idea that "it’s unfair that you have something that I am equally deserving of," the third is hate, hate is the desire to destroy the source of my pain, the 4th is anxiety, anxiety is an emotion or reaction to prevent something that will hurt me or destroy my Identity or survival, or someone that I love… talking about love, love is desire, we desire either something that feels good, and there are many, so many kinds of desires people have, even music or intelligence to people that appreciate that – but of-course there is love for people, itself with primarily two subcategories, a. because the person has a benefit to me b. as well, as that I identify with that person – I see they are like me and then extend the same appreciation of self, for them – in fact sometimes I take on another person’s identity, such as a child to a parent, or a person to a role model; unfortunately as it is possible to hate oneself, which is likewise either induced through self judgement, for example 80% of depression is caused by anxiety, so as anxiety feels painful, I hate the self that is causing pain, and unfortunately self-loathing can come from believing someone, whose opinion I revere, which is also what we call Shame; and on the subject of shame we also have guilt, but to be accurate one must be conscious that there’s 2 Superior forces, completely outside of man with ultimate power over man, the first of-course is God who has given us multiple guidance systems which when we use them – as we are given as well, free choice – results in positive – versus, the Satan, who is extraordinary in causing us to – primarily through unnecessary guilt – to suffer, for truly there is no man without sin, and sin is only to lead to T’shuvah / rectification, a stronger resolve…. but if we remain in suffering, we will then seek releif, which can cause addiction, as well as ironically sadism, for that too can give one temporary relief