What I learned the hard way

 

One of the most important concepts is the structure of reality namely in Kabbalah-words “everything has a beginning middle and end.”

 

By nature we are very emotional which is a euphemism for “I want what I want.”

 

But desire has no reality, no beginning middle nor end – have you ever seen a kid throwing a tantrum – there is no rationale to it.

 

An adult may be more, perhaps passive-aggressive or whatever; but fundamentally the emotion of “I want this because I want this,” namely, we all have an ego, the ego is related to my love of self, hence anything I want it is more than the objective that is driving me, rather the subjective ego: the desire to fulfill my desires.