What all of science and what all of Kabbalah has come to discover/teach is, one – there is no such thing as reality! – the reason we think there is a reality is because we observe one – But under the microscope (nano-scope and based on Divine revelation) a. nothing physical exists! (at most you can say it is like an electron popping in and out of existence, in the words of a physicist “the most tangible thing you can say about intangible reality is it is like a thought,” a concentrated bit of energy) b. the observer recreates the reality (much like a child with play-dough) hence c. the wisdom of the Baal Shem Tov, “If you consider that everything is good (namely if you see the good, blessings in your life, the idea of Jewish prayer, and if you consider even your curses blessings, for a curse is only a perception, hence you can choose to see the blessing, the silver lining) then everything (including the curse itself) becomes good (and as one physicist said, “this is such a simple difference, but again because we are so convinced that reality exists independent of our thinking, one, that we don’t bother to do.”)