We think others think of us as we think of them – for this reason when Israel won the 1948 war of survival, they surprised the Arabs, by telling them they would treat them nicely – the Arabs know in their internal hatred of Jews and what they would have done had they won; many left – officially refugees – but the point of this point is to point out, that in truth, whether you love or fear or God-forbid hate people, is based on your perception if they love, fear or God-forbid hate you, which is based on your perception if they love, fear of God-forbid hate you, which is based on your internal – though you may not be aware of this – love, fear or hate for them!