We must live normal lives – normal is not normal (the norm) – (just think about how many – particularly historically – difference accepted norms! – for a norm is only what a group of people do!) Normal is balanced – what do we need to balance? – We all need to balance between our personal agenda (I want!) and our communal, mutual, love/harmony/unity agenda; and the secret is, that the latter must guide – for only in this way, can you have love, unity and harmony