we must – as Kabbalah teaches – understand, we all have three THREE separate selves (competing) we have our intelligence (this can be compared to a young wise king – able to give good advice but not as willy, as) we have our emotions (this can be compared to an old foolish king — may be arrogant and foolish, but knows how to manipulate) and we have our ego (this can be compared to a child throwing a tantrum)