We live in a illusion but Kabbalah goes beyond into the truth – the absolute reality is that 5 things are the only facts: 1. The only absolute existence, whose existence is not caused ( by another) is our loving Father 2. For all actions there must be a motive and unless you fear the motive is love ( or at least desire) as the prime cause cannot fear ( which would technically mean something outside of him could hurt him, which is bizarre for he created what is outside) 3. Hence his motive is love – now there are two kinds of loves – one is admiration, the other lust – the former makes sense ( as the Creator foresaw the future) the latter restricted to physical biological instincts which those without body cannot posses 4. If love is the motive, everything is loving 5. Life ultimately must combine two states ( which like time can consistently reoccur) the state of effort and the satisfaction of achieving