We know there are three paradigms: chessed gevurah and tifferes; I just realized that these paradigms encompass as it states in the introduction to the Zohar – one is expansive, one is constricted, and one is normal – in the state of Chessed we think that everything is beautiful and therefore we see nothing but our imagination; in the state of Gevurah which is a reaction to fear and anxiety we think that everything is dangerous, so we are like a player in a video game, highly focused but basically protecting ourselves, with very little space in our heart; then comes the truth, which is that life is neither big nor that small, those are relative terms and relativity doesn’t exist, rather life is always God