we get frustrated when our unreasonable expectations are not met – so let us discuss what are our unreasonable expectations, for you can only pop a balloon that you see – so I’m going to mention what I know and I would really appreciate it if in the contact page you mention what you know – because this page will be seen by many people who will Google unreasonable expectations – so first and foremost we are living in a time where a. based on the largest government study into pornography, men have or at least younger people who unfortunately have been exposed to it – unreasonable expectations (reasonable expectations in a relationship are for dignity, and for more on this you can read Kabbalah on Marital Intimacy) also it may be that we have unreasonable expectations from our governments, as governments basically are there to create safety – they are not some type of utopian dystopia, for if you give the government’s power then you lose your own, which is worse! (so a reasonable expectation is to expect yourself to make a life for yourself.) In terms of our association to people we can have unreasonable expectations in three ways, the first is we can assume that the adults or say the rich need to help us – this is unreasonable because they are just people, and they may have the same expectations of others II is we may assume that those who have helped us, should continue – like children often do, or perhaps towards a spouse (the reasonable expectation is just to feel grateful that even though you deserve nothing, you receive so much) and finally the last and quite common unreasonable expectation is actually that people hate you – of course this comes from a negative experience, and to protect ourselves we project the possibility of this on everyone – so we can cut ourselves off (the reasonable expectation is to understand that there are those people that are jealous of happy people therefore malicious, but I think it’s safe to say, most people are not)