We begin life (hopefully) being naïve – the world seems to us from our experiences a place of great love – most of us will have been cruelly, maliciously, bullied at some point, for those who have lost their naiveté become jealous of those who have it – as it feels good to be in love and feels horrible to be in fear – that is when dissociation as well as resentment, resulting in anger and going over to the dark side occurs – but ultimately all comes from God – for there is a third way which we cannot reach, unless we have gone through the first two, namely the path of Jacob – what is the truth? Which is, that life is not a party, nor is it a nightmare; it is an opportunity to do good!