We all want and value – for our essence is God – Love (however we also have an irrational ego – which among its irrational desires is the need to live – perpetuate – and as we assume we are our body – when we fear – which relates to death, or identity annihilation – often we will acquiesce – as in the Helsinki syndrome – so even those who hate, in essence don’t, and furthermore, as the men of Avsholoim (who fought against David) said, that they wanted David’s victory!)