We all have pride and shame which is very much related to both a self-perception, matching our thought speech actions, with our IDEAL thought speech actions – as well as our perception of how we are perceived by others who we idealize; and when our shame overtakes our Pride, so if we lose our shame, we lose our pride, and it’s therefore we can have lack of Shame, which is why shameful shameless people, always Shame, as it both serves their desire that others should feel what they feel, as well as it’s a great way to easily manipulate others – if you don’t care what anybody else thinks of you, because you already think they don’t care