Too open… – you see there is such a thing as being too open…. – I remember telling my mother when I was a little kid, “I have too much of an imagination” – I remember her laughing – Well, in truth if you are too imaginative…. – as I think most men have about a thousand get-rich-schemes, you don’t activate – On the flip side, you can be too closed – Many women are in a state of anxiety – as one woman told me “we’re all control-freaks;” so while it may seem like things are perfect, it’s actually perfectionism… (an incessant fear, mainly of shame – when a person is in the too-closed stage, our instinct is “NO” – instead of embracing and being open, we are closed / protective, which also causes us to get jealous, hence become malicious etc.) But there is an infinite stage by which you believe “Life is good!” not because you are in charge (as dogs and children think) rather because you have faith! – simultaneously, this can cause you to become too open – so you must understand (as anyone with faith knows) life is a great challenge (primarily to fulfil God)