Today is Lag B’omer! and the special message of the day is: no one ever has the right to criticize – if anybody ever criticized you, it was out of jealousy, and often people have had their identities destroyed because somebody was jealous that they had a positive self-image; so anybody who ever made you feel bad, it was only because they were jealous that you were feeling good about yourself; and as you shine a positive self-image to yourself, because you’re part of God and you’re a beautiful soul!!!!! and you shine that to others, and then others shine back love