To understand a human all you need to know is we operate on three operating systems (which is why things seem so confusing) the highest is ideals (you know helping others etc.) the next is instincts (you know pleasure vs. pain) but the last is highly complex, for it relates both to an instinct however it very much becomes our identity – this is pride vs. shame, for example, a person who is proud of themselves will do things to not become ashamed, however a person who was made to feel shameful hence has no pride, either becomes a psychopath – essentially not caring what others think of him or her