To stay sane – we have to as per Maslow’s hierarchy which Abraham Maslow was quite correct in saying – if we wish to understand ill people let’s research ill people – but if we wish to understand successful, and as he called it, self-actualized people – let’s research them! SO first of all we need to have our basic needs met… we have also the need to feel safe, which is not only physically, but it is also emotionally – (unfortunately many people may physically be okay – but emotionally they are concerned to their pride and dignity) – we furthermore must have a positive self-image – we furthermore must have a sense of belonging / love – We Finally Must Have A Meaningful Passion