To love when you haven never experienced the harsh sting of malicious evil behavior is only too naturel – To hate (which really is an offshoot of fear) after, is too; (as psychologists say, “Trauma is a normal reaction to an abnormal situation”) – But to be able to reclaim your security, by faith in God’s overriding goodness and reclaim your compassion, by realizing all people really love love, and those who are malicious are only jealous that they too have been stung – is to not only reclaim your humanity but to actually become a saint.