To exist we a. must have not only a sense that we exist but in fact a narcissism about it; to be normal, we have to have an absolute sense, that no one, in any way shape or form will hurt us, or at least we shouldn’t be afraid; for fear causes us to follow the path of protection, which can also be acquiescence; while simultaneously, we must realize, that each and every person, is merely a part of the Infinite