To be happy we must love, to love we must reduce our fears (for fears distort the way we perceive the world – from a place to love to a place to fear and isolate from) to reduce our fears we must see the goodness in the world and see any negative as a temporary aberration, like a wound which will heal – bouncing back from a fall like children, due to realizing that there is too much to explore, to much to love, to much to enjoy than allowing a minor bruise to decapacitate you.