Think of life as invisible wavelengths – there is the desired wavelength of love (which itself can be for different things, but as psychologists studying vacation/holidays attest, it is the very anticipation, “the love of the destination” that is the greatest contributing factor) then of-course there is God-forbid fear, from worry (anxiety; this traps many many people) then there is ever worse, anger resentment (then there is even worse, jealous hate – so regular hate could be either at oneself (which is the cause of depression – feeling shame “you let me down…”) or against another, however jealous hate, is directed at anyone who has what you think you deserve, hence bullying, terrorism, antisemitism is really jealous hate over happiness) but luckily a human is not stuck, we can choose to trust in God!