There is three types of confidence- the confidence of those, like in America, have never been molested – then there is the terror of those who have, hence build walls greater than that of china ( and having tucked their true vulnerable heart in the vault beneath miles of well guarded subterranean pathways, long forgotten themself -with false grandeur they continuously gesticulate) and then there are those, like the Rebbe and all humble broken/ fixed hearts that can handle pain with corresponding faith