There is the open tolerate naive “everyone is lovable” childhood state – there is the closed, judgmental “everyone is a conniving jerk” ‘welcome to the real world,’ stage – and then there is truth – both these stages are emotional desires (the first for love – the second both when fear and hate replace love) and in truth, it is our job, though to obviously be cautious, never ever ever to judge or hate, rather to love and assist!