There is a. our essence, the essence of God: compassion, love, sensitivity, the willingness to sacrifice for those whom we love, b. there is hate, this is the exact opposite of God – it actually on a subconscious level exists in us and it manifests when our ego (either from low self esteem, from too much praise, from social reasons etc.) manifests; for the ego cannot handle not being “the only” – of course there is common-sense, and then there are stupid addictions, predilections – ultimately the single solution to life is to allow your God to be you