There are two structures to our lives – amazingly both good and evil fall under the same structure for the first structure is “I am me” – in this false paradigm, where we think we are ourselves, not realizing that even our thoughts which are products of our emotions, which are products either of subconscious desires or conscious experiences, which created new addictions or phobias, are like in every animal, instinctive and you cannot call something which you didn’t choose, but chose you, yours – however there is another paradigm, namely truth – the only way for a human to get to truth is to step out of themselves – ironically, we see this so clearly in religion, which historically (apart from Judaism) not only did not cause the civilization of society, but because people identified with “my religion” they therefore were willing to kill others who were not – In other words, the very definition of kindness became absolute cruelty – but one who realizes, that “I don’t know” – one who find’s God, after coming from darkness, only such a person truly does