there are three states – I can either unconditionally love all people (this is the liberal state, but simultaneously it is burying one’s head in the sand, and as we see, many are willing to God-forbid chop it) then there is the opposite state, I feel abused – “no one helped me!” – “people are rotten!” and (this is the subconscious anger / wish) I become abusive (any times we are lashing – demeaning in any way) then there is a third way, we can discern – we are aware there is evil but we don’t hate and primarily we do all we can