There are three possibilities which in essence encompass our lives (and every other living thing) a. We act out of identification, hence as we see the other as ourselves, and as we innately have self-love which first and foremost is self-respect we treat others likewise – this is how God acts; b. As we seek what feels good and we become phobic of what feels bad, we become somewhat (to various degrees) addicted or phobic c. As we have been hurt and we are jealous (for by nature we believe either that as I am "great" hence more entitled, or as I am less (as the employee visavie the boss) hence not entitled ( to what the greater person has) or as I am on par ( and certainly if I feel greater than) another, I am equally entitled – so if s/he has something I don’t, that is unfair! and it is then my "moral right" to balance this inequality, which the easier way to "move up" the ego ladder is "take the other down" – however as simultaneously we wish to see ourselves as good, hence the mind delusionaly produces rationalizations ( reasons that seem to us – for as all parts of our body… the mind is controlled by our wishes, so just a my legs take me where I wish to go, as the internet does, so to thoughts) justify being cruel – this of-course explains terrorism ( jealousy, for they a. believe they are better, for Islam tells them so- they consider non-Muslims as evil and even call Jews descendants of pigs "the ultimate insult:)" therefore b. They cannot handle western superiority ( which is why a. All attacks against any westerner is applauded by all ( radical, which is at least 700,000,000) muslims and b. until they either receive shame in which they stop feeling entitled, hence jealous, they will as Iran’s stated goal Nuke the world – unless they are prevented from the means to fulfill their jealous hate