There are three paradigms – "no one hits" (this is born in the psyche when one lives in a safe and friendly environment and hence as by nature we seek unity we refuse to attribute negative motive- this is seen in the mindless approach of "liberals" which is how good countries allowed the holocaust, though they had suffered just 25 years earlier! a world war from the Germans, and though there were treaties prohibiting German military buildup, but in the "no one hits mentality" you don’t act until, well, you get hit; which is precisely when America and Britain entered the war, and this ostrich mentality created the unesecery murder of tens of millions!) the second mentality is "people hit" – this of course comes after being repeatedly hit, so the mind goes to fear / protection / prevention effectively PTSD – As we are naturally jealous of the good others have we also then become bullies ( as it is a way to make other also feel the same Finally there is the truth- man is like a tree – we were planted… – and God uses holy people to water our soul and messed up people to prune – which of course is to get rid of both our selfishness (even the first positive delusion) and our ego, and get us to focus