There are three paradigms

 

Love – Abraham – unconditional seeing based on eyes of love, hence being in love hence sacrificing all for those whom you love

 

Judging – Isaac – to see truth, to judge if people are correct or incorrect, hence only dealing with those whom you deem honorable

 

And the ultimate – Jacob – merciful compassion, so unlike Abraham it doesn’t overlook all faults, however as it understands compassionately why the person is say narcissistic or anti-social, instead of like Isaac not dealing with such an individual s/he compassionately assists them in their growth!